Had you told me 2 years ago that I would become a runner, I would have laughed directly in your face. I did not grow up in a fitness focused family. My dad and my brother were sports boys, playing baseball and soccer. But I did not have a female fitness role model. My mom’s workout routine jumping on a trampoline to bad eighties music.Most of my mom’s friends did not participate in such things. To lose weight, you diet.
As I got older, I tried years upon years trying to “become” a runner. I remember being 12 years old, “running” at my grandmother’s beach condo in Monterey during my summer vacation. I think I made it a mile and crashed. Although I danced my whole life, there is a cardiovascular difference between dance class and running a mile. I could feel it in my bones, my muscles, my lungs – and I quit before even trying. I repeated the “try and fail” technique for the next 15 years, going full force and then burning out.
After the birth of my first son, I realized something. Although I had been “thin” most of my life, I was not lean. I was not fit. I was huffing and puffing up stairs. The number on a scale does not necessarily represent one’s personal fitness level. And after gaining 40 pounds during my pregnancy, my weight loss stalled at 15 pounds. I didn’t understand why I was holding onto those 25 pounds-I wasn’t eating a ton. I decided it was time. It was time for me to really become a runner. Instead of being envious of my running friends, I needed to take charge of my own running destiny.
So at 8 weeks postpartum, I started. I found a “couch-to-5K” program on the internet and figured I’d try. At first…I could only jog 30 seconds at a time. My legs felt like lead. My knees ached. My hips hurt. After 2 weeks of that, I added 30 seconds to my running time. Then 90 seconds. My old self would have quit by this point, thinking that I was wasting my time because I was not fast or running far. But I knew that I had to start a relationship with running, spending lots of quality time on my feet to reach my goals. What was amazing was watching the pregnancy pounds melt. Especially after I added strength training to my routine.
After an issue with my hip in the fall, I got back on the running bandwagon after some rehabilitation, which stalled my weight loss. But I knew my relationship with running had not ended, it had just began. By the time my son was 9 months, I had only 7 more pounds to lose and yet-I fit into my smaller pre-pregnancy jeans! That was when I knew that I was building muscle and leaning out. Goodbye fat! And more than anything, I was really a “runner”. I am now consistently running a 5K and adding mileage each week, with no plans to stop. Running is now who I am. And although I am novice and not fast, I don’t plan to stop where I am at. I am just entering this relationship with running and it is good.
For those who are desiring becoming a runner but may feel intimidated or overwhelmed, here are a few tips.
First: get checked out my your doctor before starting a fitness program. I got my “ok” at my 6 week check up. For those mama’s who are newly postpartum, always wait for your doctor’s approval. Those first 6 weeks are so important in the healing of your body after labor.
Second: start slow. Remember, I could only jog 30 seconds in the beginning. I never thought I would go further than that. You will. Take your time.
Third: Let running become a part of your identity. This may sound silly, but if you don’t believe you are a runner, you will not become one. Buy a copy of Runner’s World. Read articles about running. Talk to experienced runners about their journey.
Fourth: Incorporate strength training into your fitness routine. Before I started adding strength into my workouts, I could only jog so long and so fast (clarification-it wasn’t fast). After squats, lunges and core work my speed picked up. Goodbye, 12 minute mile!
Fifth: Don’t give up. Even if you have a minor set back like an injury or illness, get back up and get outside when you are able. Life happens. It’s the truth. But if you are going to become a runner, you will be doing this the rest of your life. Get up and get moving.